7 Things to Know Before Your E-Shoot

Getting ready for your engagement shoot? Here are few real tips from a wedding photographer’s perspective to help you feel confident, relaxed, and totally yourselves.

So, you’ve booked your engagement shoot—first off, yay! Whether you’re doing this to get comfy in front of the camera, mark the moment before all the wedding chaos, or just want some beautiful, frame-worthy memories—this is such a fun chapter in your journey together.
Over the years, we’ve had the chance to shoot a lot of e-sessions—each one as unique as the couple in front of the lens. Here are 10 things we always tell our couples before their engagement shoot to help them feel prepared, confident, and excited for the day.

1. Pick a location that feels like you

It doesn’t have to be fancy. It just has to feel right. Think about places that matter to you—maybe it’s where you had your first date, your favorite walk, or just a spot with gorgeous vibes. Love city lights? We’ve got rooftops. More of a nature couple? We know hidden gems too.

2. Outfits: Don’t overthink it, but plan a little

Wear something that feels good on you. Something that makes you feel confident and comfortable. We always suggest bringing two outfits: one more dressed up and one laid-back. Keep the colors soft or neutral if you want that timeless feel, and try to coordinate without fully matching.

3. Golden hour is your best friend

There’s a reason photographers chase the light. That soft glow just before sunset (or right after sunrise, if you’re morning people) gives your photos that dreamy, cinematic look. We’ll help guide you on timing—it’s 100% worth planning around.

4. No need to pose like a model

We’ll guide you every step of the way, promise. Our style is all about capturing you two just being yourselves. Laugh, whisper, hug, walk, twirl—whatever comes naturally. The best moments are usually the ones in between the poses anyway.
The best photos are never about perfect posing—they’re about your connection, your laughs, your inside jokes. Trust us, you already have everything you need to make it magic.

5. Make it personal

If you have a hobby you love, a pet you’re obsessed with, or a vintage car you take way too many photos of (guilty), bring it! Little personal touches add so much personality to your session.

6. Trust the process

You might feel awkward for the first 5-10 minutes. Totally normal. Everyone does. But once you settle in, and you realize it’s just you two hanging out (with us tagging along), it gets so much easier. Give yourself that time to warm up—we’ll guide you through it all.

7. Discuss Your Vision With Your Photographer

Whether you have a Pinterest board packed with inspo or just a few vague ideas floating in your head, share it with us! Are you imagining something romantic and soft? Fun and playful? Editorial vibes with drama and edge? Or maybe a mix? The more we know about what you’re hoping for, the better we can bring it to life. And don’t worry if you’re not sure—we’ll ask the right questions to help figure it out together.

Final thought?
Don’t stress. Engagement shoots are supposed to be fun—and they totally are. We’ll guide you through everything, keep the energy chill, and make sure you leave with photos that feel like you.

Ready to plan yours? Let’s connect and start dreaming it up.